Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Dating Question and Answers for Men

By Stylelife Academy

Question: I'd like to talk to ladies that I'm attracted to but usually, I lose my nerve. How can I beat this feeling?

Answer: You suffer from a condition known as "Approach Anxiety." It's a mental process that begins after you spot a beautiful woman. You get nervous and your feet stick to the ground, like they're cemented to the floor.

You become concerned about, "What will I say? What will she say? And what if she rejects me?" These bad thoughts become so extremely overwhelming that your whole body wages war against you talking to this gorgeous woman.

You should know that this condition is experienced by all males. The good news is there are proven methods for overcoming this affliction. The best rule is to approach within 3 seconds before you can talk yourself out of it.

Question: Why are women constantly saying to me, "let's just be friends"?

Answer: Your problem is so common that there is a tried and true method for overcoming it. The basic issue is that these women are losing attraction for you and then downgrading your sexual status to that of a friend, instead of a lover.

But the good news is that you no longer need to feel as though you are unattractive to the opposite sex. The solution is not utter life-long loneliness. Rather, the solution is to raise her attraction levels by flipping her mental attraction switches. The three universal female attraction switches are:

1. "Pre-selection" - or to demonstrate to her that other women desire you. 2. "The Leader of Men" - or portraying to her that you're a competent man who makes decisions and leads people. 3. "A Nurturer" - showing her that you take care of and think often about the needs of your friends and family.

After flipping on these switches, her attraction is not an option, it's inevitable. Learning how to use these attraction switches allows gives you the comforting sensation of being an attractive man.

Question: How can I be certain that I'll be able to kiss a woman or go even further on a date?

Answer: This challenge boils down to the woman's sense of feeling awkward. Women are very attune to their emotions. If your presence makes them uncomfortable they'll feel that you "aren't meant to be." After this happens you'll NEVER be able to progress on to the physical stages of dating.

Most women if they feel properly comfortable with you and are attracted to you will feel ready to kiss and become physical much sooner than you might expect. The best advice is that if she shows you several signs of interests over the course of a date then she probably wants to kiss you. - 15431

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