Monday, October 27, 2008

The Fast And Easy Way To Find Out If Your Spouse Is Cheating

By Doug Timlin

If you are in a serious relationship, you may have wondered whether or not your significant other was cheating on you at some point or another. These types of suspicions are really horrible and can totally drive you nuts if you just don't know what the truth is. Fortunately, there is a simple and effective way to find out whether your spouse is cheating.

The nice thing about this method is that you can do it all from your own home without anyone knowing what you are doing. I get emails from people asking about hiring a private investigator to look into whether their spouse is cheating, however that is such a drastic step that isn't necessary. This quick and easy "detective's trick" is the first thing you should do if you have some thoughts that your partner might be acting unfaithfully.

Read below for the quickest way to get answers about what your spouse has been up to.

Step #1 - Think Your Spouse Is Cheating?

Find time to take a look at your spouse's cell phone for roughly 15-20 minutes. Be sure to pick a time where know you won't get "caught" checking out their phone.

Check out their recent call history which is stored on their phone. Look at the incoming and outgoing calls and write down the phone numbers on paper.

Notice any familiar numbers? Leave out the numbers that you recognize and be sure to get all the ones you are curious about.

When you are done with this, carefully return the phone and go on to the next step.

Step #2 - Could Your Spouse Be Cheating?

Now you have the list of numbers handy, it's time to find out who the numbers belong to.

You can find out a lot of information about someone when all you have is their phone number. It's possible to find out someone's full name and address along with their background information when all you have is their phone number.

Lots of companies exist with enormous databases filled with information about phone numbers. These companies pay to gain access to this private information and then pass it off to you for your own investigations.

You may want to have a look at the sample search at the bottom of this article for more about how the searches work.

There is a small fee to use this type of search, but it isn't expensive. What you will you want to do to save a few bucks is find a company that charges a flat fee for unlimited searches. This way you don't have to pay for each individual search you run.

This is also called a "reverse phone lookup".

Search each number on your list and jot down any information that you can come up with.

Step #3 - Could Your Spouse Be Cheating?

You now have a whole list of numbers and details pertaining to everyone your spouse has been calling recently.

Knowing who your partner has been talking to can really help you determine if your partner has been cheating. Look over the list carefully to see what you can find out.

You will want to pay close attention to the names that show up a lot and make a note of any call patterns. If anything suspicious is going on then you will most likely be able to figure it out just by analyzing what you find.

What do I love about this technique so much? Not only is it very quick and easy, but you can do it privately so that nobody knows what you are up to. If you think your spouse is cheating on you then you need to do yourself a huge favor and try this technique to find out for certain. - 15431

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