Saturday, October 18, 2008

How To Score With Women From Jump Street

By Vince Simonsky

How do you alter the way you come off? Self-awareness is one of the critical factors that is a game changer. The behavior you demonstrate and the effect you have on others need monitoring. No matter how good your behavior effects others, one false move can undo 99 good moves. Learn to keep an eye on open for pace and subtle clues for feedback.

With your mind's eye on elements of your character that can cause attraction as well as cut off attraction, you need control. Any negative attitudes, projections, or physical mannerisms need to be stopped and eliminated from a persona. Self-awareness is the deciding factor for this culling out process.

The art of making a woman feel totally attracted and comfortable with you is a feel as you go method. Sexual tension is created using a little good humored teasing, throwing in a little cockiness and playing hard to get.

Even if things are going along gangbusters, if you demonstrate negative behavior, you'll be out of the big picture. If you get too mushy to quick you'll get tossed or be in constant danger of being replaced. If you follow her lead all of the time you'll cut off chances to exert personal authority. Eventually you get tossed into the dung heap and lose any chance to regain your dignity.

No whining, no revealing the tender feelings and walking on eggshells for her approval. These are attraction killers. Living an interesting life a demonstrating a strong sense of personal authority gives a woman pause to notice. If you don't demonstrate strong behavior, she'll be looking for someone who will challenge her.

If you're not doing the right things to attract her you'll lose her attention. It's her way of preserving her freedom of choice. Women want to feel a notable and addicting attraction to a man.

After the chase and catch is over and you become an "item," if you let down and make her feel like she has to be the drive behind the relationship, she'll start withdrawing. When a woman feels like she has completely dominated you and has you wrapped around her fingers to the point that the challenge ends, she'll be looking to leave.

A man should never be totally dominated by a woman. Never be entirely won over. There need to be a dispute and enigma for any relationship to continue and flourish. A woman wants to experience a confident Alpha male presence and it is that attitude that wins longevity in a preeminent relationship. - 15431

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