Think about this, a prostitute can have intercourse with a client, but cannot kiss them. Now think about this: when a couple take marriage vows, the ceremony is sealed with a kiss, as symbolization of being connected forever intimately. A kiss is more of an intimate connection than intercourse itself.
The kiss is the core of a relationship - a barometer of how things are going. Most couples aren't even aware when their relationship begins to change. What was once a passionate relationship has become a friendship over time. One day they awake to the realization, "We're roommates and no longer lovers." So, keep reading! You can keep your friend and get your lover back too.
When you give someone a peck on the cheek, that says, "I love you," but a 10 second kiss says, "I'm still in love with you!" For years I've asked women whether they've ever felt lonely, desolate, and empty minutes after their husband has arrived home. Most women have said, "yes." If you have this feeling too, I will give you a foolproof method to eliminate this particular problem.
Of all the homework assignments I give, the 10 second kiss has the most immediate and dramatic effect. In the morning it sets the tone for the rest of the day, in the evening it sets the mood for the rest of the night. It's a passionate kiss that makes you feel warm, close and connected. I want you to grab your mate tonight and plant a 10 second kiss on him. When you hear, "What's gotten into you?" respond with, "From now on we are not going to be roommates anymore. We are going back to being lovers!
Next, let your mate know that you want to try this week long experiment. Everytime you greet each other after being away from one another for a period of time, you have to kiss for 10 seconds. It doesn't matter if you had a bad day or not. If you need to use a timer to see what 10 seconds is like, have fun!
You probably think 10 seconds is not long, but it is! Most married couples greet each other with speaking, such as "Hi, I'm home" or "Anyone here?" The isolated feeling are there because there is no physical response. Isolated feeling will be replaced with closeness and warm feelings when you start relating to each other in this way. Once you have connected with the kiss, you can continue with your normal tasks, such as dinner, kids, etc... You will feel connected to each other now. - 15431
The kiss is the core of a relationship - a barometer of how things are going. Most couples aren't even aware when their relationship begins to change. What was once a passionate relationship has become a friendship over time. One day they awake to the realization, "We're roommates and no longer lovers." So, keep reading! You can keep your friend and get your lover back too.
When you give someone a peck on the cheek, that says, "I love you," but a 10 second kiss says, "I'm still in love with you!" For years I've asked women whether they've ever felt lonely, desolate, and empty minutes after their husband has arrived home. Most women have said, "yes." If you have this feeling too, I will give you a foolproof method to eliminate this particular problem.
Of all the homework assignments I give, the 10 second kiss has the most immediate and dramatic effect. In the morning it sets the tone for the rest of the day, in the evening it sets the mood for the rest of the night. It's a passionate kiss that makes you feel warm, close and connected. I want you to grab your mate tonight and plant a 10 second kiss on him. When you hear, "What's gotten into you?" respond with, "From now on we are not going to be roommates anymore. We are going back to being lovers!
Next, let your mate know that you want to try this week long experiment. Everytime you greet each other after being away from one another for a period of time, you have to kiss for 10 seconds. It doesn't matter if you had a bad day or not. If you need to use a timer to see what 10 seconds is like, have fun!
You probably think 10 seconds is not long, but it is! Most married couples greet each other with speaking, such as "Hi, I'm home" or "Anyone here?" The isolated feeling are there because there is no physical response. Isolated feeling will be replaced with closeness and warm feelings when you start relating to each other in this way. Once you have connected with the kiss, you can continue with your normal tasks, such as dinner, kids, etc... You will feel connected to each other now. - 15431
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