(continued from part 1)
There was about a couple of times that I did the peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard that other guys were doing it.
I felt ridiculous, and was totally incongruent with my personality when I went out.
As we all know women love's fashion and they like a well-dressed man.
I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something really basic - like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best pickups occurred.
At the same time, women definitely did not respond well to those muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club.
It got me thinking... that maybe it's not how flashy or costly are the cloths should be.
Maybe there's something else going on.
Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage and balance these two things.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make her like you, you are toast.
So if you come like you got dressed with a purpose of getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.
You DON'T WANT to look like a pick up artist.
To dress modestly and not put too much thought into it avails much.
However, you don't want to look sloppy. You want to present yourself in the best way you can.
This comes back to self-expression.
You now have sense what kind of guy you are, what your "scene" is, what you think is cool.
Do not change that.
Instead, improve it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color. This isn't rocket science. You can look online or go to n upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this.
Next is to make sure that your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and reasonably updated. A woman will not worry about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure your clothes fit well, meaning, they ACCENTUATE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.
Wear pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way.
One other thing...
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck."
Use your intuition with this one. I don't want to say too much because that's a whole other topic. - 15431
There was about a couple of times that I did the peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard that other guys were doing it.
I felt ridiculous, and was totally incongruent with my personality when I went out.
As we all know women love's fashion and they like a well-dressed man.
I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something really basic - like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best pickups occurred.
At the same time, women definitely did not respond well to those muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club.
It got me thinking... that maybe it's not how flashy or costly are the cloths should be.
Maybe there's something else going on.
Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage and balance these two things.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make her like you, you are toast.
So if you come like you got dressed with a purpose of getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.
You DON'T WANT to look like a pick up artist.
To dress modestly and not put too much thought into it avails much.
However, you don't want to look sloppy. You want to present yourself in the best way you can.
This comes back to self-expression.
You now have sense what kind of guy you are, what your "scene" is, what you think is cool.
Do not change that.
Instead, improve it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color. This isn't rocket science. You can look online or go to n upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this.
Next is to make sure that your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and reasonably updated. A woman will not worry about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure your clothes fit well, meaning, they ACCENTUATE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.
Wear pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way.
One other thing...
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck."
Use your intuition with this one. I don't want to say too much because that's a whole other topic. - 15431
