Friday, October 24, 2008

Top Ten Mistakes Men Make When Approaching Women

By Stylelife Academy

1. Do not hesitate to go up and talk to her by waiting for that perfect moment when she is alone. Even if she is interested in you if you haven't won her friends over they will pull her away from you.

2. Do not gaze at her for more than three seconds before you approach. Delay any longer than this, and you might creep her out or manage to convince yourself that you shouldn't talk to her.

3. Don't be apprehensive to approach her because she is surrounded by a group with some men in it. Usually, after you meet everyone you'll learn that these guys are family, friends, or co-workers.

4. Never begin a conversation with a woman by saying sorry. Expressions such as "Excuse me " "Pardon me " and "I'm sorry, but" make you seem like a beggar.

5. Don't hit on her or give her a generic compliment. Instead, start a conversation with an entertaining anecdote or question, such as asking the group to suggest names for a three-legged cat or a store that sells 70's memorabilia. It may sound corny, but everyone loves to give their opinion.

6. Never, ever purchase a cocktail for her. A real man doesn't need to purchase a woman's attention.

7. Under no circumstances should you touch or grab her immediately. If she touches you, retort, while smiling, "Watch it, hands off the goods."

8. Don't lean in or hover over her. Stand up straight and, if the music's too loud or she's seated, simply speak up.

9. Don't ask her what her name is, what she does for a living, or where she's from. She's bored of talking about the same things with every new guy she meets.

10. Don't focus all your attention on her when she's with other people. If you win her friends over, you'll win her. - 15431

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