Wednesday, November 19, 2008

3 Counter intuitive Techniques to Save My Relationship

By Tim Jackson

It can be a very difficult thing to try and save a relationship, as there is always the worry that you'll make one wrong move and ruin your chances at saving the relationship altogether.

Unfortunately when trying to save a relationship, what feels like the right thing to do, is often the wrong thing. In most cases we should always follow the 'counter intuitive path'. For instance when we feel like calling is when we should stay cool instead, and when we feel like pouring our hearts out is when we should put a lid on it.

The techniques that you're about to discover, you have probably never seen before, and at first glance they may look and feel wrong, but believe me when I say they have been proven time and time again to be effective in what seems to be the most complicated situations and relationships.

Save My Relationship (Counter intuitive) Technique #1

To mend a broken relationship the first technique you need to use, is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be the most difficult thing to accept, and chances are that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you're able to do so.

It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together again. The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you've been nagging them about getting back together.

How to Save a Relationship (Counter intuitive) Technique #2

The second technique proven to work is to cut off all communication. Just Wait!... I bet you're about ready to close your browser down right now! But Hold on, because this technique really does work. It helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex you that you are serious.

You see by not communicating you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for the break up in the first place. By crowding their space you will only re-evaluate the reasons. This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly and clear your own mind. It also sets you up for the next technique.

Counter intuitive Technique #3 - 15431

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