Thursday, November 6, 2008

David Deangelo, Mr. L. Rx , Neil Strauss, Mystery Method Compared

By Robert Bryan

The top five Dating Review sites by Alexa.com ranking as of July 11, 2008 are: DoubleYourDating.com - 12,987, DatingToRelating.com - 43,381, The Seduction Chronicles - 52,287, StyleLife.com - 61,225, TheMysteryMethod.com - 62,997.

I've bought all these materials - books and systems - and have tried them all. I have been a student of these kinds of materials for five years now. My ranking based on how well it will work for the average guy is as follows (I am excluding The Seduction Chronicles as it is not a Guru site. )1. Dating To Relating (Mr. L. Rx) 2. Double Your Dating (David DeAngelo) 3. Tie - TheMysteryMethod (Mystery) and StyleLife.com (Neil Strauss).

Dating To Relating. This is genuinely the very BEST product on the market right now. The training you get from this book is tops. No matter what you are looking for you will get the best information about it here. If you want quick pick up line techniques - they are here. If you want intellectual understanding of the opposite sex - it is here. But it is not just a bunch of pick up lines, and techniques (although it gives you that too.) It is a comprehensive education about women and what works with them.

What is unique about this book is that the strategies and ideas presented are SITUATIONAL and will work for all types of guys and they will work on all types of girl that you are interested in. I say this because if you want to purchase a book that will actually work for you, this is it. That is what is most outstanding about this data. None of the other systems we reviewed had total SITUATIONAL information that covers ALL situations.

The author, Mr. L. Rx, does not give you just one brainless technique of how to hit up on women in bars or clubs, or on the internet, or how to be successful with one personality type. He covers it all. From bars and clubs, to on the street, in the store, on the internet, etc. Not only does Mr. L. Rx tell you how to meet women. He tells you how to meet different kinds of women with different kinds of personalities in different kinds of situations. No one else really does this.

Double Your Dating. Double Your Dating is an awesome compilation of data for men.This is the largest compilation of data to help men ever assembled in one place. Besides the original product David DeAngelo now has scores of other products to help men overcome their fears and "wussiness" with women.

I personally bought his original product and his Dating Guru Interview series on CDs that come out monthly. There is a lot of value in David's products. I've still subscribe to him and it has been five years that I have been buying his products. I think it is a perfect complement to Dating To Relating above, and I would recommend to anyone who has the extra money to get this product in addition to Dating To Relating above.

The reason being that Dating To Relating teaches you how to develop your own techniques and Double Your Dating gives you a lot of data to help stir your creative juices to help you develop those unique techniques. David has a free daily newsletter that is absolutely great.

The downside is he hasn't quite put it all together as well as Mr. L. Rx. and although there is a lot of truth in his volumes of data, he ultimately focuses on a strategy and doesn't quite get the situational approach of Mr. L. Rx. So, David's approach will work for some guys, but it isn't a system that will work for ALL guys - Mr. L. Rx's system is a system that will work for ALL guys and ALL types of girls.

Mystery Method and Style Life/The Game/Neil Strauss. Okay, so why I am combining the Mystery Method with Neil Stauss's (Style's) The Game? Mystery was Neil's initial Guru and they have a very similar approach to this whole thing.

In conjunction with the above two products - "Dating To Relating" and "Double Your Dating" Neil and Mystery can have decent value. Taken on their own, I would not recommend them for the average guy. The techniques that are given here, definitely work, but they only work on a narrow band of what I would label shallow women.

Mystery and Neil Strauss's techniques are very powerful and work, but the end product is you might not like the kind of girls you get as a result of this, and you might not like who you are being as you do this. Mr. L. Rx. gives you similar techniques to pick up shallow women in bars and clubs but he also tells you how to get a "real" relationship and how to pick up "real" (non-shallow) women.

Plus a major negative to the Strauss/Mystery system is that a lot of their techniques are just memorized lines. Recently Neil Strauss has admitted that "The Game is changing." Apparently so many guys have learned his and Mystery's pick up lines and routines that women have heard them before and recognize them and men are getting busted for using them.

There are even gurus on the internet who took Mystery's training and were successful at it, but gave it up and don't practice it anymore. I think this is because of the quality of the kind of girls that it attracts. You get girls, you just don't have much respect for the kinds of girls that it works on.

The value of these materials is similar to what I said in the Double Your Dating section above. Mystery goes into more details about this particular method than Mr. L. Rx does. So, if being a "player" is your life's ambition, there is value in getting this information in addition to Mr. L. Rx's data.

Mr. L. Rx actually gives you more tools to be a player with, but Mystery gives you more detailed information on this one technique with this one "type" of woman than Mr. L. Rx. Mr. L. Rx gives you more tools to create "pick up" technique with, but Mystery and Neil give you a lot more data that you can create with once you get and understand Mr. L. Rx's tools.

So, if you are the kind of guy like me who is very interested in being very skilled at this "meeting women" stuff, then I would say these materials (The Mystery Method and "The Game") are also a MUST for your library in addition to "Dating To Relating" and "Double Your Dating. - 15431

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