Tuesday, December 16, 2008

3 Reasons Why Men Dump Women And You Can Avoid Themselves

By Hilda Laine

It is often a woman will be dropped for reasons that could have been eliminated in the early stages of a relationship. Finding out if these excuses for a departure exist in a relationship before too much of an emotional tie is formed would make life a lot easier. By knowing these excuses exist a lot of grief could be eliminated by ending a relationship early on, before doing so would be very painful.

This article will discuss 3 reasons men might change their minds and walk out of a relationship. So, learning them may serve as a heads up for any woman who might be blinded by love in the early part of a boy-girl bonding.

For sure, these reasons are bad ones and any guy who uses them, in the final analysis, is an idiot. Still, these guys are around and so we girls have to be aware of them and their warped senses of reasoning.

She's Not the Choice of The People He Hangs With

A lot of guys are insecure enough to not be confident making a pick on who they would like to spend forever with unless this Miss Right meets the approval of their friends.

A problem will arise if his friends change their minds or if he happen to move up, or down to a new set of friends who don't take to her. In his zeal to make sure he has the best mate, he will have to quit his relationship with this unapproved woman and find one his friends are comfortable with.

He Thinks She's No Longer a Babe

Unfortunately, it never comes to many people's minds that they will ever age. At first the two lovers could never look at anyone else because they are so taken with the physical attributes of each other. They are, in each others minds.... Perfect!

This is all great, but at some point, maybe like five kids down the road, she loses her 21-year-old-girl figure. Unfortunately, it's not until this point that either one of them realizes all along the relationship had been all about sex.

Family Life Just Ain't For Me!

It has become in vogue to live together without officially tying the proverbial knot. So, no commitment is ever made but a family is started anyway.

You would never think a human being could stoop so low, but some guys decide they want to end a relationship just because it has become too tough! Can you imagine? It really happens, married life with kids and responsibilities is just too much of a hassle for their little minds so off they go. Bye!

Don't let this kind of thing happen. Live together for fun if you must, but a family? Don't you think the kids deserve better than that? - 15431

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