Many of us have experienced approach anxiety while out. For most it sets in when thinking about approaching a woman we find beautiful. Approach anxiety can be so crippling that it keeps you from ever talking to women.
There's a manner for beating this social paralysis. For a lot of guys approach anxiety initiates as an internal negative dialouge. This mental loop can be ceased and conquered with an opposing positive dialouge.
Question: "Why did I go out this evening?"
Answer: "To meet a woman."
Question: "How will I be able to meet and attract women?"
Answer: "I must approach them and talk to them."
Question: "If I don't even attempt to approach any women how will I feel?"
Answer: "I won't feel good about myself and I'll view tonight as a worthless and awkward time."
Question: "For how long will I then think about this negative experience?
Answer: "It will be on my mind until I can go out again and I will feel horrible about it."
Question: "Do I want to feel horrible until I go out again or do I want to feel like a rock-star right now?"
Answer: "I want to feel like a rock-star, let's go talk to some women!"
Now, you must make all of your efforts worthwhile, so you must act! Use the powerful negative feelings of your approach anxiety to motivate you to meet women. Make your fear into your power. - 15431
There's a manner for beating this social paralysis. For a lot of guys approach anxiety initiates as an internal negative dialouge. This mental loop can be ceased and conquered with an opposing positive dialouge.
Question: "Why did I go out this evening?"
Answer: "To meet a woman."
Question: "How will I be able to meet and attract women?"
Answer: "I must approach them and talk to them."
Question: "If I don't even attempt to approach any women how will I feel?"
Answer: "I won't feel good about myself and I'll view tonight as a worthless and awkward time."
Question: "For how long will I then think about this negative experience?
Answer: "It will be on my mind until I can go out again and I will feel horrible about it."
Question: "Do I want to feel horrible until I go out again or do I want to feel like a rock-star right now?"
Answer: "I want to feel like a rock-star, let's go talk to some women!"
Now, you must make all of your efforts worthwhile, so you must act! Use the powerful negative feelings of your approach anxiety to motivate you to meet women. Make your fear into your power. - 15431
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