Finding a good relationship is not always easy. When we do find a potential match we begin with that magical question: can this person be the one? But then, as the relationship progresses, sometimes we question what we have. When do we know that it is not meant to be?
The statistics are out there, with so many more relationships ending in divorce than we care to think about. How do we know if the person we are with is the right one? Is that uneasy feeling caused by a deep down knowing, or a fear of self?
We all know that finding a good relationship is possible. But no one has really captured a magical formula or special method to knowing if what we have will be lasting or not. Which way are we running, toward happiness, or away from it?
Let's look at the dream vs. reality aspects of relationships: Is your relationship based on a shared reality, or is it filled with illusion? How much are your desires dictating the reality of your relationship?
Is there balance between the dream world where we create based on our wants and needs, and the real day to day reality? In a real relationship we are interacting with another person, with their own thoughts and dreams. For their own sake they must be true to their own perceptions, not live up to yours.
When we are in a truly loving interpersonal relationship with another we connect on levels not experienced in the other type of relationship. There is a reality that is shared between two people.
The bond that is between two people can be amazingly strong and incredibly weak at the same time. It is built on both the reality shared, and the perception we have of that reality. Delving into our inner world can help us in determining if the feelings you have in your relationship are based on fact, or fantasy. - 15431
The statistics are out there, with so many more relationships ending in divorce than we care to think about. How do we know if the person we are with is the right one? Is that uneasy feeling caused by a deep down knowing, or a fear of self?
We all know that finding a good relationship is possible. But no one has really captured a magical formula or special method to knowing if what we have will be lasting or not. Which way are we running, toward happiness, or away from it?
Let's look at the dream vs. reality aspects of relationships: Is your relationship based on a shared reality, or is it filled with illusion? How much are your desires dictating the reality of your relationship?
Is there balance between the dream world where we create based on our wants and needs, and the real day to day reality? In a real relationship we are interacting with another person, with their own thoughts and dreams. For their own sake they must be true to their own perceptions, not live up to yours.
When we are in a truly loving interpersonal relationship with another we connect on levels not experienced in the other type of relationship. There is a reality that is shared between two people.
The bond that is between two people can be amazingly strong and incredibly weak at the same time. It is built on both the reality shared, and the perception we have of that reality. Delving into our inner world can help us in determining if the feelings you have in your relationship are based on fact, or fantasy. - 15431
About the Author:
Author Estee Taschereau is a Intuitive Life Coach and Reiki Healing Master. Learn amazing energy tools through Reiki Healing.
