Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Text, Photo, Enticement: Writing Attractive Personal Profile for

By Desmond Ray

Part 1: Serious relationship (looking for a wife)

Your photo. Your latest snapshot in a suit from the office neither your semi-naked body planted into sand on a beach will not do best work for you here, assuming that you are looking for a lifelong relationship. The best approach is to present yourself in a quiet, homey background, in armchair, with a grey Chihuahua sitting on your lap. If you got no pets, just borrow one for occasion, or post a close-shot of your face with your best smile. Note, even your very best picture with past girlfriend sitting on your lap, will not be a good substitute for a pet picture.

Words. You may be fond of your hardworking habits or your past victories with women, but those are the least things you want to show in your profile. She will not be attracted to you if you will tell her that you are here because you are a tired workaholic or, even worse, tired womanizer. Make your text neat and to the point, describe only the major features of your character, your interests in life and desires, the rest must be left for a chat with interested party.

Temptation. This depends on what kind of woman you are looking for. Tune her on your wavelength with such phrases, for example, as I will take you, my love, to Paris, and we will spend a week at Louvre. Or, My dream is to awake every morning and hear cheerful giggling of our kids. Or, one more: I cant imagine my life without forest trail and a backpack. These points are needed to give woman an idea on what will be her life with you. If you are seeking a music lover, do not write modestly I love music. Better write something like: I have got blown away by the recent concert of Santana, or Requiem of Mozart makes me cry.

Part 2: Flirt and brief romance (looking for a good time)

Your photo The purpose of your profile is to tell her that you are kind, fun-loving and joy-spreading person, that you will not load her with your problems and all that she will get from you is one or two weeks of a good time. Every picture confirming this statement will work for you. Any combination of you and a symbol of good time, such as you leaning on a limo, driving red Viper, straddling glittering chopper, getting tan on Ipanema beach, opening bottle of Dom Perignon, etc., or just giving your best smile to everyone, will suffice.

Words You are not looking for a wife, so she should not hear about the depths of your personal life. However, by all means you should not tell her that you are merely seeking a partner for intimacy. She would not like that. Women tend to seek some degree of real emotion in any relationship, even in a very short-lived one, where men could see nothing, but mere a physical thing.

Enticement. It will be a good idea to promise something romantic, because, after all, you are calling her for romance. Evenings with sunset and mornings with coffee will do. If you will be gentlemen to the last day, she will be OK with the end of that day. No unfulfilled expectations, no hard feelings, no long-term promises, everyone will go his (her) own way to look for someone else.

Good luck. - 15431

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