Sunday, January 11, 2009

The Best Valentines Doems Idea

By John Yarled

Guys, its almost February 14th again. The merchants are stocking shelves with hearts, speckled with red and pink colors. Dozens of red roses fill all the flower shops to capacity. Most offer ferns, babys breath and arrangements to catch the eye. So men, now is your time to make a little effort and get her the most original gift. Your happiness depends on it.

Favorite staples for this most important holiday are always chocolate in heart like containers and long stem roses. Its what we call a safe bet. Unfortunately, if you go with roses and chocolate you will not get any extra points for originality.

Want to make an impression? Ask yourself, what doe she like? Write these things down in a secret journal, note pad or PDA. All women appreciate the little things. But who can remember this stuff? So be sure to pay attention when she drops those little nuggets and write it down in your secret black book. This information is better than gold.

Not sure what to look for? Here are a few of my favorite suggestions. What does she order most often when you are out? Dont forget the dessert. What flowers does she look at? Think a dozen roses is going to cover it this year? Think again. Does she love Lilies? Add colorful Lilies to the usual roses for Valentines Day. Little details make a special Valentines Day for her.

Have you over done the favorite restaurant thing? Ever thought about cooking her favorite dish? Maybe cooking isn't your style. Here is a killer idea. Hire a chef to come to your home, prepare the meal and he serves it to the two of you over candle light. Have favorite flowers as the tables center piece. Woo her with champagne and strawberries for dessert. From there your night is just beginning.

Not that you will need it, and for some extra points play her favorite romantic music in the background. This will fix the mood. Will she be impressed? There is no doubt. You just went above and beyond. Its not just the usual chocolates and roses this year.

Making your gifts original just takes a little tweaking here and there. You dont have to spend like a king. Keep in mind she will tell you things that she likes all the time. As Valentines Day draws closer it becomes more obvious. Dont let on that your paying attention. Subterfuge is always fun. So as you make the arrangements you will have the element of surprise in your favor.

Other guys fall into the same old, same old. Dont be that guy. Most men put if off Valentine s Day until the last minute. Then they wind up with the cheap left over stuff and that doesn't make her feel special. Just a little effort and it will pay dividends far into the future. - 15431

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