There are a couple of ways of learning how to be a player: 1. get pre-selected and 2. prevent her from looking at you as "just a friend". There is a huge difference between being "just a friend" and being her boyfriend, let's delineate that right now. Getting pre-selected is easier to do than preventing her from seeing you as just a friend, let's look at the more difficult method first.
How to be a player by being her boyfriend, and not just her friend?
Sure, many sources will tell you that knowing how to be a player could mean flirting with just about anyone and sleeping with everyone, even your female pals. Sleeping with a friend, however, is like scratching a temporary itch, while sleeping with a boyfriend means to fall deeply in love with him by making love.
If you don't care at all about what women think, and feel relieved that having girl pals to have sex with when you feel the itch can be all right, but what if your female pal suddenly becomes seriously involved with another guy? What will happen to you then?
Can you see the problem there?
One can never be too certain that a girl pal will want you for a steady boyfriend; the worst part is that if you are really close with each other, she will see right through you and know that you are learning how to be a player and she might lose respect for you all together.
Besides, if you are going to turn into a player after you have gone through all the tips on how to be a player, would you really want to risk your friendship with your best gal pals? The risk there is that, if they DO fall in love with you and yet you cannot commit, you will be losing not only a girlfriend but also a friend. Yes, you don't want that to happen, so beware.
The road to becoming and being someone's boyfriend is fairly straightforward, and if you turn into one through your original casual friendship, your chances of going back to being "just friends" are not very likely. You may also never be able to get out of the "friend zone" and be stuck here forever because she can never see you as anymore more than "just a friend."
Your best bet at making it as a player is to be straightforward with your girl pals. Tell them that you are open to a relationship but you are not likely to commit in the near future. If she does not agree, then maybe she can still be your friend and even help you with the next method of learning how to be a player social proofing.
She could introduce you to other girlfriends as her "ex," which tells the girls you meet of your value as a boyfriend. Being the ex-boyfriend of an attractive gal and that you are now separated but still remain good friends means you are a pretty cool guy. Such social proofing technique is quite fool proof as you can see why. Your value increases tremendously because girls now want to date you. - 15431
How to be a player by being her boyfriend, and not just her friend?
Sure, many sources will tell you that knowing how to be a player could mean flirting with just about anyone and sleeping with everyone, even your female pals. Sleeping with a friend, however, is like scratching a temporary itch, while sleeping with a boyfriend means to fall deeply in love with him by making love.
If you don't care at all about what women think, and feel relieved that having girl pals to have sex with when you feel the itch can be all right, but what if your female pal suddenly becomes seriously involved with another guy? What will happen to you then?
Can you see the problem there?
One can never be too certain that a girl pal will want you for a steady boyfriend; the worst part is that if you are really close with each other, she will see right through you and know that you are learning how to be a player and she might lose respect for you all together.
Besides, if you are going to turn into a player after you have gone through all the tips on how to be a player, would you really want to risk your friendship with your best gal pals? The risk there is that, if they DO fall in love with you and yet you cannot commit, you will be losing not only a girlfriend but also a friend. Yes, you don't want that to happen, so beware.
The road to becoming and being someone's boyfriend is fairly straightforward, and if you turn into one through your original casual friendship, your chances of going back to being "just friends" are not very likely. You may also never be able to get out of the "friend zone" and be stuck here forever because she can never see you as anymore more than "just a friend."
Your best bet at making it as a player is to be straightforward with your girl pals. Tell them that you are open to a relationship but you are not likely to commit in the near future. If she does not agree, then maybe she can still be your friend and even help you with the next method of learning how to be a player social proofing.
She could introduce you to other girlfriends as her "ex," which tells the girls you meet of your value as a boyfriend. Being the ex-boyfriend of an attractive gal and that you are now separated but still remain good friends means you are a pretty cool guy. Such social proofing technique is quite fool proof as you can see why. Your value increases tremendously because girls now want to date you. - 15431
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