When text messaging keep in mind that, just like in face to face encounters with a woman, there are rules to know and follow.
Rule 1: SMS is not the answer to escape a phone call
A lot of men figure that a text message is much more safe than a phone call. True, but it will not consistently lead you to your goal. And that goal is to set up a date. The chances of seeing her again raises drastically when you get her on the phone and make plans as it builds comfort and familiarity.
Also, if you're texting because of your fear of interacting with this woman, then how will you ever hope to interact with her comfortably face to face?
Rule 2: Add to her day, don't be needy
Value seeking texts can be things like, "What are you doing?" or "Can i hang with you and your friends?" This kind of texting comes off very needy, turn women off, and do not showcase your personality at all.
Check out these examples that are proven to be more successful:
"I just saw a woman jogging with a purple fanny pack and she reminded me of you"
"Hi nerd! I'm sure you're operating at a level of 100% nerdiness today :) "
Rule 3: Don't send too many messages
She might be the only thing on your mind at the moment but let's keep that a secret between us, otherwise you may freak her out. Text once and only once until you get a reply, then you may text back. If she doesn't respond to your text, you should generally hold off until tomorrow before contacting her again.
Try to place some space between text responses. Keep in mind, non-neediness means sexy because she will see you are in demand and have other romantic options.
If in doubt, follow her lead. If she texts instantly, do the same, but if she text after 15 minutes, then do the same.
Bonus Texting Tool: Use the text to familiarize her
Once you have her number, text her as soon as you can especially if she is standing beside you. The situation is hilarious in itself plus give yourself triple points if it's an inside joke or funny text. Here are some...
"You got my number now, but please don't call me 10 times a day :)"
"Who is that really hot guy standing next to you?"
If, after texting her, she saves your number, take that as a definite indicator of interest. More importantly, when you call her later, your phone number will pop up and be familiar. This makes her much more likely to answer. - 15431
Rule 1: SMS is not the answer to escape a phone call
A lot of men figure that a text message is much more safe than a phone call. True, but it will not consistently lead you to your goal. And that goal is to set up a date. The chances of seeing her again raises drastically when you get her on the phone and make plans as it builds comfort and familiarity.
Also, if you're texting because of your fear of interacting with this woman, then how will you ever hope to interact with her comfortably face to face?
Rule 2: Add to her day, don't be needy
Value seeking texts can be things like, "What are you doing?" or "Can i hang with you and your friends?" This kind of texting comes off very needy, turn women off, and do not showcase your personality at all.
Check out these examples that are proven to be more successful:
"I just saw a woman jogging with a purple fanny pack and she reminded me of you"
"Hi nerd! I'm sure you're operating at a level of 100% nerdiness today :) "
Rule 3: Don't send too many messages
She might be the only thing on your mind at the moment but let's keep that a secret between us, otherwise you may freak her out. Text once and only once until you get a reply, then you may text back. If she doesn't respond to your text, you should generally hold off until tomorrow before contacting her again.
Try to place some space between text responses. Keep in mind, non-neediness means sexy because she will see you are in demand and have other romantic options.
If in doubt, follow her lead. If she texts instantly, do the same, but if she text after 15 minutes, then do the same.
Bonus Texting Tool: Use the text to familiarize her
Once you have her number, text her as soon as you can especially if she is standing beside you. The situation is hilarious in itself plus give yourself triple points if it's an inside joke or funny text. Here are some...
"You got my number now, but please don't call me 10 times a day :)"
"Who is that really hot guy standing next to you?"
If, after texting her, she saves your number, take that as a definite indicator of interest. More importantly, when you call her later, your phone number will pop up and be familiar. This makes her much more likely to answer. - 15431
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