Wednesday, January 21, 2009

What Every Guy Should Know About Seducing Women

By Chaszey Sandhriel

How does a man learn about seducing women? Effective seduction can be extremely stressful if a guy tries too hard or he doesn't try at all. A guy gets rejected when he tries too hard, and he won't get any dates if he doesn't try at all. So what's a regular guy do to start seducing women?

Start with affection. When you feel affection for a girl, show it. Be emotionally available to her and don't hold back. Thinking about romancing a girl is the most natural form of seduction because it will show in your actions.

Let your touch linger. Any girl who feels comfortable with you, will let you share hugs and hold hands with her. Try to let your touch linger an additional few seconds more before you let go. These subtle touches will keep her curious and soon, she'll follow your lead. Physical closeness encourages and promotes sexual tension, the good kind.

Avoid sending mixed signals. Be consistent with your approach. Smile every time you see her. Women in general abhor getting rejected and so, if your girl isn't sure about your feelings for her, she won't risk it.

Be on the lookout for telltale signs of seduction from her. She could be trying to seduce you but you are too wrapped up trying to learn about seducing women that she's getting exasperated! Seduction is a two-way process, so perk up, look around and notice how the ladies are trying to woo you.

Get help from music to finish the job for you. Get some music she likes and put it on the next time she comes to your place. Make a CD for her with the music she likes and prepare a romantic dinner for her. Dress up and do some ask her to dance in your living room. Music will always set the mood and can make her feel at ease and lower her inhibitions.

Seducing women means seducing her senses, and this includes her sense of smell. Never approach a woman while you're sweaty and stinky. Smell activates certain states of mind that get her in the mood for love making. Put on a fragrant aftershave or light some scented candles. Lavender scents, in particular, relax women.

Prepare finger foods and encourage her to feed you. Lip movements will shift her gaze from your eyes to your lips, and you want this to happen because it's absolutely seductive. Women have active imaginations and lip play on your part will have her fantasizing about more intimate scenarios like kissing. Prepare dips to go with chips and lick the dribbling sauce off each other's fingers.

My final tip for seducing women requires much needed privacy along with scented oils. Don't be shy giving her a massage, starting with her hands. Always notice her mood and comfort level, make sure you stop when you sense that she doesn't want you to go further. If you play your cards right, she won't want to resist a relaxing massage from someone who cares about her. - 15431

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