The definition of a mentor, according to Webster's dictionary is a 'wise and trusted adviser'. He is more than just a person we occasionally discuss our problems with. He is a person who has a vested interest in our success and will do whatever he can to ensure that we reach our goals.
In most cases the mentor is the older of the two people. This does not have to be the case though. There are many things that young people know that older people have no clue about. One thing that comes to mind is the technical aspect of learning to do business via the internet. So let's not make any rash assumptions.
Say for instance, that is the situation. You are not knowledgeable about finding your way around on the Internet and yet this is necessary for the business you want to get into. None of your close friends have a clue either. So what to do? The first thing would be to look for a younger person who was having success in the market that you want to enter.
O.K. So you have decided that you need a mentor. How do you go about finding one? There are a number of ways you could do this. First of all you could ask around for a suitable 'match'. You want to be specific regarding your needs. If you need someone to help you with internet marketing, for example, then you wouldn't be looking around for someone to help you with public speaking.
Take the time to think back on the people you have met in the past. Perhaps they might not be able to help you personally but what about their grown or teenage children. It's a sure bet that most teenagers know more about the internet than us older folks. Don't be afraid to ask - the worst thing that can happen is that they say no. If they don't agree to mentor you, don't take this personally. It needs to be mutually agreed upon for it to work.
Success comes to those who don't ever give up!
I have read a great deal of autobiographies and most successful people have all had mentors and the wonderful thing is that when they became successful, they in turn mentored others. They all attributed their success to their mentoring program.
It puts you on the fast track to success more than any other way I can think of and a great deal of satisfaction comes to both parties involved. You can also make lifetime friends. It is extremely rewarding for all concerned.
Over the years, I have been blessed with many mentors. I credit my success to their training and without their knowledge and guidance I know I would not be the successful person I am today. I cannot thank them enough for how they have enriched my life.
Jan Shimano - 15431
In most cases the mentor is the older of the two people. This does not have to be the case though. There are many things that young people know that older people have no clue about. One thing that comes to mind is the technical aspect of learning to do business via the internet. So let's not make any rash assumptions.
Say for instance, that is the situation. You are not knowledgeable about finding your way around on the Internet and yet this is necessary for the business you want to get into. None of your close friends have a clue either. So what to do? The first thing would be to look for a younger person who was having success in the market that you want to enter.
O.K. So you have decided that you need a mentor. How do you go about finding one? There are a number of ways you could do this. First of all you could ask around for a suitable 'match'. You want to be specific regarding your needs. If you need someone to help you with internet marketing, for example, then you wouldn't be looking around for someone to help you with public speaking.
Take the time to think back on the people you have met in the past. Perhaps they might not be able to help you personally but what about their grown or teenage children. It's a sure bet that most teenagers know more about the internet than us older folks. Don't be afraid to ask - the worst thing that can happen is that they say no. If they don't agree to mentor you, don't take this personally. It needs to be mutually agreed upon for it to work.
Success comes to those who don't ever give up!
I have read a great deal of autobiographies and most successful people have all had mentors and the wonderful thing is that when they became successful, they in turn mentored others. They all attributed their success to their mentoring program.
It puts you on the fast track to success more than any other way I can think of and a great deal of satisfaction comes to both parties involved. You can also make lifetime friends. It is extremely rewarding for all concerned.
Over the years, I have been blessed with many mentors. I credit my success to their training and without their knowledge and guidance I know I would not be the successful person I am today. I cannot thank them enough for how they have enriched my life.
Jan Shimano - 15431
About the Author:
I strongly suggest that you investigate mentoring. Most successful people will admit to having mentors. It just works. It really is not that hard to find a mentor. You will be surprised how rapidly you develop your business when you get involved in a mentoring program.
